I’ve never been big on having girl friends. I’ve always had more guy friends. It’s just who I am. I’m a big sports nut, I think of myself as very straightforward. Not, that I’m a tomboy. I love to go to sporting events, but, I love wearing heels to them. I’m weird that way. However, since I’ve moved to SA, I’ve made more girl friends than I’ve ever really had. I have more girl acquaintences, friends, buddies, etc, then at any other single point in my life. Which, really is rather strange.
Tonight I went out with a friend that I met/made through a cousin. I knew that we clicked from two previous meetings, but, dude, we are so much alike – in a really good way. We’re both goofy, driven, independent women who love to dress up and be taken care of. I’m goofier than she is – but she doesn’t hold that against me. I had so much fun just chatting with her. It was nice. Refreshing in a way. And, she loves to go out for a good time, which is nice, because I do too. I’ve been needing some single (non-married) girlfriends to go out with and it looks like this chica and I will make a good match. I’m excited.
P.S. my earlier insecurities were completely unfounded.